Hello Total Life Prosperity, (by the way I love your blog), So as I was reading this blog about Amber Rose and Kanye, my cousin walks in and says “Da** she fine.” So I reply, “What’s so fine about her, you can barely see her face.” To make a long story short, I got frustrated with my cousin because I believe that Amber was only “fine” to him because she has light skin (of course he wouldn’t admit it). But I know that if a dark skin, bald head sista were laying there he wouldn’t have had the same reaction. Maybe I’m just anal about this because, I’m dark skin and it seems as if I always have to prove myself or work harder in order to be considered a good catch. I must have both brains and beauty, but the light skin chic can just be fine. What is it with guys and their obsession with light skin women? In your experiences has this ever been an issue?