Love Lockdown: Let Them Be!

This post is out of pure frustration with all the trifling hoes, sluts, homewreckers, unlady like females who continue to settle for being the “side chick” to a man they KNOW has a girlfriend, fiancee, or wife. I find it absolutely mind blowing that some women still don’t get it! If he is cheating on his girlfriend, fiancee, or wife with you, what makes you think you are so special that he won’t do it to you?! I’m not making excuses for the good-for nothing man but a man will only do what you allow him to.

Women wonder why men cheat but its the classless women who pursue, willingly cheat, and become involved with men who are in relationships…they make it easy for them. If a man isn’t saved its already hard enough for him to be faithful as it is. Just make it a little easier on him and LET THEM BE! If you are there every time he calls you are enabling him to be a “cheater” If you continue to allow the cheating why would he stop? If a man doesn’t have enough self control NOT to cheat in the first place, do you honestly think he’s going to say “naw, we shouldn’t be doing this???” NO! He’s getting everything he wants so why would he? He will continue the cheating as long as you allow it or until he gets caught.

The worst situations are those phony girls who smile in the girlfriend/fiancee/ wife’s face knowing they are messing with her man. This could be a co-worker, mutual friend, or associate. That’s just plain grimy. Again, I’m not making excuses for the men but this is specifically directly towards the women. Another case is those women who deal with committed men because they can. They feel validated because someone’s man wants them. That desire to feel wanted proves there has to be some deeper issues that need to be resolved. You can’t be that desperate for attention or can you??? What’s the real problem? Do you lack self-esteem? Does it do something to your ego that a man in a relationship wants you? Why would you want a man who cheats and lies anyway? In the case that you are in it just because….I have some wise words for you: You reap what you sow. What’s done in the dark will come to the light. You can get by but you can’t get away. What goes around, definitely comes around…or in a more direct way: Karma is a B*%&H!

Whatever case it may be let me keep it 100 with you…HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU…HE ONLY WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU! You mean absolutely nothing to him! Since he’s already committed more than likely he’s not spending quality time with you and he’s definitely not spending any money on you. Those are the 2 most important things to a man…his time and his money. A man that respects you won’t let you be his “side piece” Aint no d*%k that good for you to lower your standards! If you need attention get a pet! Especially puppies, they will give you all the attention you need plus more! Any respectable female should already know this.

It’s a New Year and people are all over the resolutions so I challenge anyone who knows someone like this to call them on their BS in 2010. Confront them and encourage them NOT to get involved with a man in a relationship PERIOD…JUST LET THEM BE! If this person is you just STOP and LET THEM BE!

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