This post is out of pure frustration with all the unlady like females who continue to settle for being the “side chick” to a man they KNOW has a girlfriend, fiancee, or wife. I find it absolutely mind blowing that some women still don’t get it! If he is cheating on his girlfriend, fiancee, or wife with you, what makes you think you are so special that he won’t

Lil Webbie’s INDEPENDENT was the theme song for a lot of women in 2008.  Even women that did not have a job, their own cars or houses were singing it! They wanted all the men in the world to know that they could make it on their own and did …

OK so you’ve met someone new. You’re feeling them but you’re not sure if they are into you like that. The two of you hang out all the time. You like being around them. Your friends know about this person. They are constantly on your mind. You see the potential for more but there’s no definition to the relationship (or “ship” as I like to call it) If you really wanna know if the “ship” is going anywhere without having the what are we/where is this going conversation; Read these 5 signs that the relationship is headed in the right direction.

At the request of a reader I was asked to share my thoughts about boyfriends overly using social networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace. First of all, how do you know he checks these sites everyday? And if he does, why do you think it’s “totally inappropriate”? Did a female leave an inappropriate comment or wall post that you believe is disrespectful? These are just my thoughts but I believe most people take Facebook and MySpace waaaay too serious! I have a boyfriend and he has both MySpace and Facebook accounts and it doesn’t bother me at all. I trust that he’s not doing anything via internet that would negatively impact our relationship. Any real man will let it be known that he is happily in a relationship and he wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize it. At the end of the day Facebook and MySpace ARE NOT REAL!

As of lately I’ve been hearing people blame EVERYTHING on the economy. It doesn’t matter what the topic is someone will always say: “Don’t you know its a recession?! “Our economy might be in a recessed state but that doesn’t mean your dating life has to suffer. For those dating during a recession a cheap, inexpensive home date idea is MOVIE NIGHT!

Love Lockdown: Date Ideas Part 2! DANCE WITH YOUR MAN: For the outgoing couples another date idea is to hit the club with your man and dance the night away. recommend a hip hop club or reggae joint that’s known for having a hot DJ. Most ladies prefer to leave their man at home while they go clubbing, but why not include your significant other? Nothing is better than having a good time out with friends and then coming home to your man…Why not

Over the past couple of months several friends –males included, have confided in me concerning relationships with their significant other. I’m very hesitant when giving advice because in times past I’ve had the tendency of coming across harsh, judgmental, or insensitive. While none of those were my intentions, I am …