Sometimes, my dear friend, Mookie Jones jokes around and gives me a pretty good saying…. One day he playfully uttered “You’re going to end up old, strong and alone if you don’t watch it”… This was probably in response to something I did that was out of the male/female gender role (like opening the door or paying for a bill or something, which totally annoys him). However, his sly utterance still sticks with me, and I sometimes ponder on it…I’m probably not going to be very popular with saying this thought, but “If you are single, that is because of the choices you have made, so stop the external blame game”….

OK so you’ve met someone new. You’re feeling them but you’re not sure if they are into you like that. The two of you hang out all the time. You like being around them. Your friends know about this person. They are constantly on your mind. You see the potential for more but there’s no definition to the relationship (or “ship” as I like to call it) If you really wanna know if the “ship” is going anywhere without having the what are we/where is this going conversation; Read these 5 signs that the relationship is headed in the right direction.